Thursday, April 12, 2007

dad & mum: 很想念在你们怀中撒娇的日子,很怀念每晚的good night kiss...很怀念dad的炒米粉,怀念mum的菜肴...
an & win: 很想念与你们顶嘴的日子,小小的争吵,小小的打架,大大的拥抱...
happy & lucky: miss hugging both of you, happy you sure good girl de,lucky man, you don so picky for food lar, if don't eat then cannot come out of the cage eh...
丽珊、莞雯、洁敏: 一起加油!等我回到去我们一起去吃hi-tea!
sulin: 期末考要来了,祝你好运!考完就可以回槟城了!加油!

a lil more things to share or i should say what i've really learned and now i have found a way to express it through a forwarded mail:

i've learned -
that you cannot make someone love you,
all you can do is be someone who can be loved.
the rest is up to them

i've learned -
that no matter how much i care,
some people just don't care back.

i've learned -
that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.

i've learned -
that it's now what you have in your life,
but who you have in your life that counts.

i've learned -
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
after that, you'd better know something.

i've learned -
that you shouldn't compare
yourself to the best others can do,
but to the best you can do.

i've learned -
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

i've learned -
that it's not what happens to people that's important,
it's what they do about it.

i've learned -
that no matter how thin you slice it,
there are always two sides.

i've learned -
that it's taking me a long time,
to become the person i want to be.

Friday, April 06, 2007

现在的心情很复杂...昨天听妹妹说美燕阿姨去世了.虽然早就知道她已经熬不过这关,但接到他去世的消息时仍是很震撼的.记得去年为离开的前几天,我们还一起吃过一顿饭,后来,来了不久便从妈那儿得知阿姨的腹部一进开始硬化了,但过了几个月又听说病情好转了,再后来,今年回来不久便听说他的肾脏一进衰竭了,也已经瘦得皮包骨了.
人生就是这样,生、老、病、死.每个人必定会经生、病与死,但老,不是每个人都会有机会.
很多时候我都会在猜测自己到底会活到几岁呢?对我来说,长命不代表一定过得好.最重要莫过于健康及快乐.没有健康,就一定没有快乐.即使再长命,但生活一点都不快乐,那简单来说就是折磨.再者是,人生总得先苦后甜.若有机会吃到老,但老来的生活却苦不堪言,那更没意思.
总而言之,珍惜活着的每一刻,因为我们根本不知下一刻将发生什么事...